Hindu Mommy

January 10, 2007

Parents are Precious

Filed under: Parenting — hindumommy @ 10:55 pm

I read this and immediately thought of my parents…This post is for my parents – I have argued with them and likeVenkatesh have answered back without patience.

Parents are Precious though we tend to understand that late but I guess it is better late than never

Thank you Amma and Nanna ! 

 This was narrated by an IAF pilot to IIT students during a Seminar on Human Relations

Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh) realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our parents.

My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same.

In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the  baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen.

He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this  meant a great deal to him.

When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life.

As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true.

Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc

Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us?

Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give  the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc.

But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young.

It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how  they would have felt at those moments.

Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders.

Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream.

 I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their  wishes. Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up  everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too !!


1 Comment »

  1. Hi,

    It is really a moving story. There are many episodes in Hindu epics like “Sravana”.

    There is a old Telugu picture “Badi Pantulu” and in , Kannada, Tamil also describing the story of a retired school teacher and his wife. It is a sentimental movie.

    The parents comforts and happiness has to be seen with their perspective and notwith what we decide for them.

    Let me narate two personal incidents: one with my parents and with my offspring.
    1. I was on cloud 9 when I could send my first money order to my parents from my meagre salary. I fulfilled a mission.
    2.I cherish plucking cheeks of my grownup offspring as a farewell when she was leaving for abroad. I still cherish all the presents she sent including a digtal watch etc she sent me more than a decade ago. I am still fond of the watch and am using it.

    Comment by swaralu — January 11, 2007 @ 11:21 am | Reply

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